Wednesday, April 16, 2008
MIL and SIL story (1)
This is real story from my eldest sister and her husband (SIL) and my mother. After sharing about MIL and DIL issues now we move on to MIL and SIL issues.

In my family I have 2 older sisters and have 3 brother in laws.

My eldest brother in law (also ex) is a very controlling husband. Initially when he and my eldest sister were couple he behave very well and treated my family nicely. But all changed when he and my sister were married. After married my sister for few years he started to change. Firstly he control everything my sister's dressing, how to raise kids etc. Everything my sister do must be followed. My sister end up being afraid of him and has a bad and quarrelsome marriage and end up divorce after 9 years of marriage. Now both remarried.

Though my mum was not living with them but she was invited to stay for few months to take care of my niece and sister during my sister confinement.

Following are issues after my mother stayed few months with eldest sister:

1) Everything my mum do while taking care of my sister & baby must inform/report to SIL. SIL is a very protective husband and father. He want things to be his way, if not he will start to question my sister and my sister
will scold my mother.

2) Money matters dispute. My mum was not paid any money while take care of my sister. My mum expected at least an ang pow and appreciation from SIL. After taking care my sister and baby afew months and face a lot of communication problems with SIL, she only get very small token of money and no appreciation from SIL. SIL always show black face to MIL whenever they visit my parents house. And my sister will quietly listen to SIL.

Relationship turn bad to worst after this especially when my mum notice SIL seems to be having affair and alerted my sister. SIL eventually stop my sister from having contacts not just with my mother but our family.

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