Thursday, March 27, 2008
Working environment and people around you
I am glad and happy to work in my current company. There are many more nice people than "irritating" and people in my company in Singapore so far have not met any difficult people. But I do face some issues with my own module PA in the US. When I first join this company we email each other she seems helpful and nice. Even when I met her for training in 2006, she was a petite Asian American and nice. But I always wonder why she was different when we correspond after I kinda 'graduated' from training and she likes to belittle me at times and sometimes put blames on me by her 'assumptions' without even clarifying with me.

I always wonder why people behave this way? There are times I felt like not sending her any emails even if I am not sure of some of the ERP system functionalities since there are so many customizations I cannot tell sometimes if the functionality is system standard. I had to check with others. So I will try asking Principal developer instead. In fact most of the male colleagues in US are really nice and helpful. Especially the ones I had to work with often.

Just recently I was suppose to takeover a new support from her. Training suppose to start in March but somehow instead of sending to me 2 other people were invited for training. Yet I have responded using her 1st email that I am available anytime from following week. Yet a few days has past the other 2 person has not responded yet she sent another email asking same thing again. I did not reply instead I ask the main user to reply. Due to closing he was too tight up and did not reply to her. Just yesterday out of sudden she kept chasing me and ask me why I never responded to her invitation. She was waiting for ME to start the handover. But she told me earlier that one of the other 2 are important as part of the steps will be taken over by him and NOT ME. I am confused.

Why then I get blame for not replying to her email after more than a week when I had replied her previous mail. The other 2 did not even reply any of her mails. Finally training was arranged with me today but after I forward to inform the main user who suppose to be sharing the support with me, he requested to change it to next week. Well his email proves that I am not guilty. In the first place if the meeting is to invite ONLY ME why on earth there are 2 more PARTIES in the TO email ?? And why only question me and CC my boss when I am not the only attendees that should attend. Why not she just ask me attend and give training to the other 2 if I am only one responsible?

Sigh, I really wonder. Is it because I am too nice, or too easy to get bully? Well she seems nice in person. Perhaps its always miscomm in emails. Or its her mood swings, when she feel like it she dump it on me coz I kinda indirectly reports to her on projects. There are many times she mad me very 'sick' of corresponding to her I just refuse to email her for long time. Each time when this happens my mood is greatly affected but thanks to my other nice colleagues here, I could not be bothered. I have nice team coworkers and users to work with. Why be bothered by one individual who gets mad and shoot me whenever she feel like it, I just can ignore the emails :P

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